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Early access granted!

HEARTWORK  |  MARRIAGE 

A sacred pause for intentional legacy

Early Access Expires 
April 30, 2025 

If spots remain, we will open up registration to the public on May 1.

  • Cabo San Lucas

    5-Star Pacifica Resort & Spa
    (Adults Only)

  • September 19-24, 2025

    Event begins the 19th

    6 pm, Welcome Dinner

  • The full price per couple is $4,999. Payment options available.

    Includes:

    5-Star Resort Accomodations

    All-Inclusive Food & Drink

    All Sessions

    Extreme Fun Excursion Day

    Private Beach & Pools

    Airport Transfers

    Access to three additional sister resorts and 30+ restaurants

    Fun Surprises

    (Airfare is not included; a passport is required.)

  • We currently have only 15 room reservations (we may have the opportunity for more rooms, but it is not guaranteed)

  • Yes, we can extend a special rate up to 5 nights before the event and 1 night after the event. Please make a note in your registration at checkout that you want to add nights at the Pacifica. Room rates include all-inclusive food options at the Resort and three other sister resorts with courtesy transport (20+ restaurant locations).

  • Cabo San Lucas International Aiport (SJD). Airport transfer to and from the Pacifica is provided only for September 19 (arrival) and September 24 (departure). If you extend your stay, you are responsible for your own airport transfers.

  • Subject To Change

    Breakfast (before session)

    9:30 - 11:45 am Morning Session

    11:45 - 5:00 pm Enjoy the resort/spouse interaction with daily prompts *

    *potential afternoon availability for Spiritual Direction, Awareness & Intentionality in Business

    5:00- 7:30 pm, Dinner at your choice of 20+ restaurants, included with your All-Inclusive access.

    7:30-9:00 pm Evening Session

    *Last Day Excursion

  • We believe that God created human beings, male and female, in his own image. Men and women, equally made in the image of God, enjoy equal access to God by faith in Christ Jesus and are both called to significant engagement in family, church, and civic life. Adam and Eve were made to complement each other in a one-flesh union that establishes the only normative pattern of sexual relations for men and women, serving as a type of union between Christ and his church.

 
 
Life is so busy.

We are distracted constantly.  


Our distraction leads to stress, surviving, medicating, isolating, exhaustion, doubt, broken relationships, numbing, avoiding, separation, insignificance, questions, deferred hopes and dreams. 

We desperately need awareness and intentionality in our lives, marriages, and families.

 


This is deep work, soul care, spiritual direction, and real-life practical tools for building rhythms and patterns that you will practice for 10, 20, or 30+ years to come.  



To Build A Legacy

Marriages and families are on the line. We need to fight well for this reflection of Christ in our lives. Our children and grandchildren need it. It is our witness to Jesus and His world.

It is not striving.

It is an invitation to spaciousness in our cadence, awareness, and intentionality for crafting a well-ordered way in our marriages. 

It is rooted in Christ.

 
 

What is spaciousness?

The gift of spaciousness is a moving away from distraction. 

The gift of spaciousness allows us to find awareness in the ways we are living.

Spaciousness brings movement from the "to do list" to "the being." 


How am I breathing? 

Am I looking up and out in life? 

What am I taking in? 


Spaciousness prepares us to mindfully engage God and our spouse. To experience a new level of intimacy and expanse in our relationships. 


Spaciousness looks like slowing down to accelerate. 


Instead of waiting until an emergency or trauma occurs, we must invest now in living a well-ordered life. Spaciousness helps us know now that we need more awareness to build a well-ordered, healthy way of living. 


The time to invest is now, not when there is a crisis. 


Your health is not about a doctor's check-up once a year but your daily rhythms. 


If you want your grass to green up, you don't just turn on the sprinkler when it's brown and dying. There is preparedness and intentionality to care for what is beneath the surface. The soil's health and the root systems are the givers of green grass. 


We will give you the daily rhythms for growth and a healthy marriage. 


Mind. Body. Spirit.  
 

What is the aim For You, Your Marriage, & YOUR FAMILY?

 
Spaciousness to move from "the to do lists" to "being"

Awareness of how to grow in your marriage from the place you are right now

Perspective that empowers the daily rhythms for endurance in your marriage

Attending to God and receving His love

Attend to our souls to be known by God and our spouse
 
 

MEET YOUR HOSTS

Nathan & Lexi McHenry
Nathan and Lexi married in 2005. They started their marriage by leading mission trips around the world. They’ve spent the last two decades investing their lives into their family, friends, church communities, and businesses. By God’s grace, they have found a passion for pursuing a well-ordered way of life with awareness and intentionality. 
Nathan served as a pastor for over 15 years, has hosted over 10,000 students and leaders on trips stateside and abroad, enjoys running long distances, and is often found in entrepreneurial adventures. 
Lexi is living her dream as a stay-at-home mom. She homeschools her children, enjoys four shots of espresso daily, hosts, and bakes. She is adamant about sunshine before 11 a.m. and is a trained and gifted Spiritual Director. 
Grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ
— 1 Peter 3:18
 

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Early Access Expires 
April 30, 2025